Written By: Highgrove House
| Venue = | HIGHGROVE HOUSE |
Alright, future Mr. & Mrs. (or Mr. & Mr., or Mrs. & Mrs.!), let’s talk about those quirky, sometimes baffling, traditions that float around every wedding like confetti in a gentle breeze. We’re diving into wedding superstitions – the ones that make you raise an eyebrow, and the ones that just add a sprinkle of fun to your big day.
At Highgrove House, we’ve seen it all. We’ve witnessed nervous glances at cloudy skies and delighted squeals when a penny turns up. While we’re all about making your dream wedding a reality, we also love a good laugh. So, let’s unpack some of these age-old beliefs, shall we?
- “Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue.”
- The Superstition: This classic rhyme is supposed to bring good luck. “Old” for continuity, “new” for optimism, “borrowed” for borrowed happiness, and “blue” for purity and fidelity.
- Our Take: It’s a charming tradition! Who doesn’t love a sentimental touch? We’ve seen brides incorporate everything from a grandmother’s locket (the “old”) to vibrant blue shoes (the “blue”). It’s a lovely way to add personal flair. Plus, it gives you a fun scavenger hunt before the big day!
- Rain on Your Wedding Day Means Good Luck (or Tears?).
- The Superstition: Some say rain signifies good luck and fertility, washing away past troubles. Others grimace, fearing it means a lifetime of tears.
- Our Take: Here in the Lowveld, a little rain can be a welcome refreshment, especially in the warmer months! And let’s be honest, at Highgrove House, our stunning indoor spaces mean a few raindrops won’t dampen your parade. Our authentic rustic barn or elegant old world dining room offers a beautiful, weather-proof backdrop, ensuring your day is perfect, come rain or shine. No tears here, unless they’re tears of joy from seeing your gorgeous setup!
- The Groom Shouldn’t See the Bride Before the Ceremony.
- The Superstition: This one dates back to arranged marriages, preventing the groom from backing out if he didn’t like what he saw.
- Our Take: Thankfully, we’re a little more progressive now! Many modern couples opt for a “first look” – a private, emotional moment before the ceremony. It’s fantastic for photos and calms those pre-aisle jitters. Our beautiful grounds at Highgrove House offer countless picturesque spots for this intimate reveal, creating truly unforgettable memories (and fantastic photos!).
- Breaking a Glass for Good Luck.
- The Superstition: Common in some cultures, breaking a glass signifies permanence and good fortune, scaring away evil spirits.
- Our Take: While we prefer our beautiful glassware to stay intact (less sweeping for our amazing cleanup crew!), if it’s a tradition close to your heart, we’re happy to discuss how to incorporate it safely and joyfully. We’re all about making your unique traditions shine!
- Carrying the Bride Over the Threshold.
- The Superstition: To protect the bride from evil spirits lurking below the threshold.
- Our Take: Mostly, it’s just a sweet, romantic gesture! Plus, it makes for an adorable photo opportunity. Our various areas at Highgrove House, from the grand balcony at the manor house to our charming jacaranda tree avenue, are all perfectly picture-friendly for a chivalrous carry.
Ultimately, superstitions are fun little footnotes in the grand story of your wedding. What truly brings good luck is planning your day at a stunning, supportive venue like Highgrove House, where every detail is handled with care, leaving you free to focus on the most important thing: celebrating your love.
Ready to make your own luck? Contact us today to tour Highgrove House Country Hotel, Restaurant, Spa & Farm and start planning your perfectly unique day!
